Chapter 12: Church - How I Go without Getting Angry

Interesting title of chapter to say the least. I am sure that Mark and I will pay special attention to this week's discussion. And to start off without saying, I think it is next to impossible to never get upset or angry at church. I work at church. I get angry at church. The church is an imperfect institution, because it is created and exists because of imperfect people. What makes church "work" is the power of God and His Spirit that breathes into the institution and empowers it to minister. Enough for my soapbox, let's look at some of Miller's thoughts.

And by the way, since this is a "church" subject and I am asking for your honest impressions, do not hesitate to be honest. Mark and I both learn and grow and help model the church into what the people desire. Be honest, we won't be offended.

(1) Miller lists three things that he does not like about "church". The first, "I felt like people were trying to sell me Jesus." Second, "They seemed to be parrots for the Republican Party." And finally, "The churches I would attend would embrace the war metaphor." What do you think about Miller's list? Do these things bother you? Do you feel the same way as he does? What else would you add to the list?

(2) Miller then goes on to describe the new church he joined, Imago-Dei. He lists the things that he likes about the church. The first, "It is spiritual." (not religious) Second, "Imago Dei supports the arts." (free expression) Third, "Community." (Part of a famiy - loneliness is not good) And finally, "Authenticity." (being yourself) What do you think of Miller's list? Do you agree with these things? Do you see these at FBC Elon? What would you add to the list about FBC Elon?

(3) Miller understands that people can get frustrated about church. When you talk about faith and religion, people take it personally. He gives a three step plan to do so you don't get angry at church. First, "Pray that God will show you a church filled with people who share your interests and values." Second, "Go to the church God shows you." Third, "Don't hold grudges against any other churches. God loves those churches almost as much as He loves you." Based on Miller's three step plan, do you think this would work? Based on previous church attending experience, would this have changed which church you attended? Which one of these steps do you think would be the hardest for you?

I look forward to the discussion...